Ask yourself what holds you down when you want to sail off. Then ask yourself whether its holding you down because it just happens to be there or you sub-consciously allow it or even plant it yourself. Its easy to blame others for your falls but you always need to accept the fact that you allowed them. Everything which happens with you is because you let it happen. My anchors associates with my demons. I know that I plant my anchors to keep me from doing things which I know I might regret. I’ve always known I’m an extremist. All my demons relates to me being emotional and care all the time, for literally everyone I know and all my anchors are to direct my emotions and get rid of them. I’m writing my story of anchors to remind myself that all the time I waste blaming others for screwing me up, I’ve let them. We don’t control how are we raised but once we start figuring ourselves, our choices are only ours. You might not know what’s the right time to cut your anchors loose, but gotta start facing your own self at some time. I’ve realized I might not ever be ready to set my main sail but I gotta start somewhere if I don’t wanna regret it. I already know what’s holding me down. All I’m afraid of is somewhere down the lane when I won’t find anyone to blame, I might blame myself.
“I think its time to let the anchors go”