Same breakfast, same route, same schedule, same sleep cycle and REPEAT! Relatable?
I’m never able to keep up with a single routine and for those people who can so easily maintain this never ending cycle, I’m always surprised. Do you ever feel that monotony brings frustration but also knowing the schedule can contribute in mental peace because you already know what’s gonna happen next.
I would suggest try and break the monotony as your brain needs challenges once in a while.
Human-bots : term used to define those you just keep on repeating a single thing every single day and you may come across the researches that state monotony kills creativity. The thing is, we are so stuck in a routine that we forget to acknowledge the world beyond it and over a long period we stop seeing the difference and moves on with the built frustration sinking it in different sorts.
I often identify people around me stuck in this ill practice of your society and when I put my finger on that moment in which their laugh is as insignificant as their knowledge of being stuck. I can’t decide whether to smile that they are laughing or sympathetic. When you realise you are a part of this integrated co-dependent monotonously hazard, you feel alone on this end where you are not sucked into it(yet)
“ I just pray that everyone gets what they aspire”
“You will never get the whole package. All you need to decide is where and with what you wanna settle?”
One anticipates the meaning of life according to their own experiences and the perception they develope over the course of their life. Everyone assumes that their life has had the most challenges but what I perceive of this connation is “it’s like an exam paper” and it has a equal amount of sad and happy times which might not coincide with any other person. Maybe there are some events which turn out to be same in one aspect or other but we can not figure that out unless we are out of that phase.
Life unfolds as these ‘phases’ pass and we can not get a clear picture during any of these, so we have to wait till end.
Some phases might seem like it itself is an end but it’s just a mirage because there’s a notion that endings are always happy.
Now, maybe this assumption is a bluff to give you hope, but having hope is better than quitting, right? Surviving is any day better than believing that you deserve a sad end while that may actually not be an end.
Can you feel how delusional these phases are ?
You’ll read many quotations like “JUST KEEP BREATHING” and cinicals might think ‘wow, like we don’t know that, as if we don’t do that already’ but these three words give power to many who have forgot that as long as you are breathing and able to breathe, it’s alright.
Speaking of three words, there is a pair of other three words which are as powerful and more famous than these. Though I won’t say them because frankly I’m afraid of it by now. ( see, that’s because of my experiences and I accept that :))
I would just suggest that these three words doesn’t contain the end too, whatever it seems like good or bad.
I’ve always said just be happy with yourself and yea, of course keep breathing :))
Have you ever played blackjack sipping a tasteful cocktail with adrenaline rushing all over, the dealer dealt the cards, you just made a choice, blood gushing in your temples, “yes, that’s the very exact moment when you feel your heart pounding and outrunning you”; fortunately, this lasts for just a few seconds.
Will you be interested in such gamble? No matter what your answer is, you don’t have a choice, now how does it feel?
Probability, statistics, experiences, wisdom….. all these fade sometimes and you have got to play this gamble. Isn’t it fascinating? We are so trained to move on that we don’t realize for a beat that any moment this all can swap, sure emotions dillude us and we all have our own ways to cope but if we rationalize our thought process whilst the dillusion ( very hard task for some, indeed) we might actually feel that rush is no different that the rush one might get while playing ‘blackjack’.
So yea! Life is a beautiful gamble- just keep playing 😀
I’ve been listening to this quotation a lot that “you can not un-love someone, you just start loving someone else”. In a way, it is true. When we start loving, we associate every thought to that person. Even when the relationship ends, those thoughts, habits and memories take us back to that person and we feel being stuck with that person. These thoughts and memories gets replaced when another person comes and everything aligns with him/her. Do you realize what just happened, your capacity to love remained same but not the person.
So, once you move on, you un-loved that person but you did not forget how it made you feel and you constantly seek those feels in mundane things.